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Susie Mawhinney's avatar

Ahh! Well Grandpa should know... but I am not so sure?

I adore the painting Mary, Grandpa in his shed, of course he writes poems with a garden like that to gaze upon!

Sending love dear one, I hope your festivities were filled with peace and love xxx

<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

Oh, Susie, this was one of the harder ones to do on plain stationery, and being a watercolor amateur! You bring me peace in all you write, my dear virtual friend!

Del's avatar

Grandpa's reply is craftier than it seems. I wonder what Arthur will make of all this?? From the mouths of babes...

<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

I so agree: "craftier than it seems'!

A. Jay Adler's avatar

Gramp's rules! (for the moment ;)

<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

Ah, yes! --for the moment. xx

Ellen Kornmehl MD's avatar

Nice mustache, Grandpa! we all must follow our own voice

<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

Indeed, Ellen. XX💕

Lor's avatar

Life happens to us every day, and more often than not, over the years we forget many of those conversations we’ve had with our loved ones. Reminding us to never again, miss an opportunity to ask questions, offer answers , or just engage . Like Arthur taught you to do for Lila. She will always remember. Sometimes there is an unnamed magic that happens, as if we pressed ‘record’ in the archives of memories. Like the old card catalogs in the library. We close our eyes, pull up one of those cherished sentences or two, and the world changes in a moment, that feels like a lifetime ago. And we hear those few sentences , crystal clear.

“You got that about right." “I don't want anyone else to say anything; just you!”

I am sure you can hear those ‘few sentences’ from your son. It truly is miracle isn’t it.

<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

Oh, Lor. yes as you say, "as if we pressed record in the archives of memories." I hope you have written this comment down and saved it in a journal, Lor, you should be writing if you're not already.

Lor's avatar

Thank you , Mary. That means a lot, coming from you. Happy Hanukkah! We’re doing potato latkes tonight . My husband has become the master chef of latkes. He knows how to make the oil last for enough latkes to feed a crowd of two, with leftovers for breakfast. Sides of nova, applesauce ,sour cream, a sprinkle of sugar, because my dad did it when I was a kid,  and matzo ball soup.

Kimberly Warner's avatar

Good old practical wisdom from grandpa. 😂😂😂

Richard Donnelly's avatar

Those flowers!

<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

Oh you are such a love. I was happy with the tiny flowers ... Nothing is fixable with watercolors-- so you gotta be lucky (me) or good at it (not me!)

Richard, you sweet, generous soul, if you're sending the link to pre-order _Who by Fire_, advise folks for now to use Barnes and Nobel; Bookshop is a little hinky for some reason!

Isabelle's avatar

So lovely. Words and art. Short and sweet conversation but deep and meaningful too.

<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

Isn't it though. What a write Simèon is! I simply adore him and wish I could meet this French poet.

Lor's avatar

Oh no! Lila is home, it must mean Arthur is coming very close to fitting all the little pieces together. Well, this one hit home, many years ago when my grandpa had an entire wall of pipes and such, in his garage. Now I wonder if gramps ever read a poem before. Wish I had asked him.

<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

Lor, Arthur is getting closer! More to come, for my lovers of this series, few as you are! but growing! with your help! .... to build on your point, I so wish I had interviewed both my parents more than I had--and I did quite bit, but I also wish that I'd recorded the answers to my questions, and to everything they told without being asked!

On of my stories that is really memoir from my short story collection _The Woman Who Never Cooked_ and that was published elsewhere even before I started writing full-time (you know, that job I needed to support my children) is entitled "Losing". I'll post it here soon. It's a tribute to my father that he read before he died and asked me to read it when he died. He loved it so but said instead in his witty, brief way, "You got that about right." He also said I don't want anyone else to say anything; just you! What a love he was!

Writer Pilgrim by So Elite's avatar

I'm sorry I'm with grandpa on this one. I'd write poems any day rather than fix pipes and I've had to fix broken pipes and plumbing twice! I wish I had the option to fix those plumbing issues with a poem or two instead. I love the drawing in this letter. Must have taken longer to do the illustration than write the letter. What a lucky granddaughter.

Kara's avatar
Dec 20Edited

Ha! I’d rather fix pipes than write poems. Interestingly, however, the character in my novels, which are partly told through his journal entries, sometimes writes in poem. Not sure where that comes from, but there it is, my rebellious inner something.

Writer Pilgrim by So Elite's avatar

Maybe every poet is a rebel or vice versa! Nothing wrong with fixing pipes!

<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

So Elite, do you have a name, I could use to chat with you and praise your poems? I don't remember how long it took--maybe I was just getting a bit better at putting watercolors on plain stationery! I'm the lucky one!

Zina Gomez-Liss's avatar

Your camp letters make me want to break out my watercolors!

<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

Ah, Zina, do! and illustrate you lovely poems!